Relationship matters First decision to make as a single man & woman is your Salvation. Second decision is who you spend your life with, who you spend your life with determines your relationship with God, how far you will go in Life, actualizing your purpose, dreams , vision.

Self discovery before you enter into marriage relationship, who are you? If you don't discover yourself how do you place value? How will your spouse know you and value you, how do men value you? Do you even have a value?. After you have found that person how do you live together. Marriage is not easy but it's easy for two grown up man or woman who wants to make it work. No perfect relationship or marriage, anywhere you see one just note that they both working together not to let go. They fight, misunderstanding set in, they encounter storms of life too but they both went through all this stages,time together in unity. Even the Bible according to Amos 3:3 says can two work together except they agree. Are you ready to agree with that man or woman? Are you ready to work together? Marriage is For better, for worse not the new phrase of marriage now that's why must of the marriages coming up now doesn't last longer, both man and woman trying not to accept each others flaws and live together in harmony. Responsibility, accountability, humility, Agape love etc. All this are the things to look at for marriage is beyond just coming together without knowing fully well the basics of it. Good relationship needs God in it, and even if you are into any relationship that's not working now you still need God in it to fix it. find God first, find yourself in God's word and live in harmony with one another. Marriage was constituted by God don't accept wrong doctrines about marriage and don't allow people to discourage you on it. We have God our creator so talk to him let him guide you rightly don't choose wrongly.. Thank you for your time.